Why do straight men go to the gym to try and attract women?

So, why are there so many adverts claiming that men can attract any woman? Low-intelligence men that no sane employer would ever hire, but who know that sex sells, reason:

” I like women that have spent time in the Gym and who use make-up – therefore, women must also like men that have spent time in the Gym and who use make-up.”

Thus, through their faulty logic , these straight men surmise that by exercising and acheiving an amazing good looking bodybody, wearing cosmetics and spending a lot of money on clothes – they will have women falling at their feet – in reality only gay men will be falling at their feet.

Most men try and get great looking & great bodies hoping to attract women. Well, I’m afraid it’s bad news, you can’t attract any woman, neither can I, and anyone man who claims to be able to is a liar!

Since it’s only women who can attract men – simply by dressing in revealing clothing and looking pretty. But, this passive approach doesn’t work for men – who need to be more active, and to manipulate the woman of their desire into choosing them as a sexual partner, via various seductive methods.

WOMEN ARE NOT SEXUALLY STIMULATED BY LOOKING AT THE MALE BODY

To be sexually aroused by the sight of males would promote random intercourse, therefore undermining all of these aims, and also wasting time and energy that might be spent nurturing children, or in economically significant activities. Thus, a female’s reproductive success would be seriously compromised by a tendency to be sexually aroused by the sight of males.

So why do men still go to the gym to get the “body of their dreams” etc and attract women when women are not even turned on by the male body but are turned on by themselves being the center of erotic admiration & sexual need?: http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/471483/results

Would women ever see going topless as becoming a popular fashion trend?

In Ontario, Canada, a ruling was passed in 1996 that made it legal for women to walk around topless in public. Yet since that time, very few there have chosen to exercise this right.

One woman who did so this past summer wrote on her blog about the negative responses she received, particularly from other women:

http://community.feministing.com/2008/09/topless-in-toronto-how-my-brea.html

In her blog, she chalks it up to “internalized imperialism” where women are conditioned to act in favor of female oppression. In this case, she argues that they feel only beautiful women should be allowed to be topless, and then only for the enjoyment of men.

On the other hand, some women argue that they would feel uncomfortable being topless in public or seeing others who are (regardless of how attractive they or anyone else may be), that the choice to remain covered up is due to a sense of modesty, self-esteem and self-respect.

My question is, from a beauty and fashion standpoint do you think women in general are brainwashed by society into believing that appearing topless in public is akin to doing something obscene or inappropriate? Or do many women truly believe in a “show less/leave more to the imagination” type attitude when it comes to clothing?

It’s clear many cultures around the world view topless feminine beauty as something to be celebrated. Yet in western culture, it’s considered erotic, suggestive…or at worst, sleazy.

There even seems to be outrage when a female appears in public wearing something like pasties (adhesive coverings applied to cover a woman’s nipples) as seen in the case of singer Janet Jackson’s infamous “wardrobe malfunction” a few years ago.

Sarit: My apologies, as this question is not intended to be offensive. I’m sorry if you were.

What’s interesting is that I posted something similar one on the Gender & Women‘s Studies, and the responses there tended to be the exact opposite of the ones here.

I want to get in to the clothing business is that a good idea ?

I am not a full figure woman but I have big breast and I have a condition that my belly his big no matter what exercise I do, I want to make a line a clothes that will be for people like me that will be nice elegant and comfortable. Also I make little girls clothes, and teen clothes hair bows, blankets etc. and everybody makes very good comments about it. How is the clothing business will I succeed or it will be a waist of time and money. What is your opinion.

Exercise routine to see results?

Does anyone have a diet/exercise routine that’s given them KILLER results? I’ve been working out consistently for about 4 months and I do see some good results, but I still don’t seem to be losing the love handles. Over the past 2 weeks I’ve started jogging about 2-4 miles on the treadmill. Will this eventually help?? My diet is pretty good, but I know it could be better. Any helpful tips are appreciated. Also do supplements really help? If you know of any good ones for women that’d be helpful too…And I’m hoping the extra weight I’ve gained recently is muscle and not FAT! My clothes fit better so I’m hoping that’s the case.

Why can a woman’s breasts be rounder in appearance for a while,but then for other periods of time be pointier?

I know people generally say their breasts look one or the other…at least I think so… Is this related to food or diet? I don’t really exercise much so don’t think in this case that’s it. Clothing related in any way (and not just bras or lack of)? Thanks

Any way to prevent or to ease menstrual/priod pain?

Exercise? Yoga? Hot drinks? Chocolate?
What’s the most effective way to prevent or to ease the pain?

Any way to prevent or to ease menstrual/period pain?

Exercise? Yoga? Hot drinks? Chocolate?
What’s the most effective way to prevent or to ease the pain?

Is it ok to take a shower after Yoga?

I take a hot shower!

Why does my dog roll around on my wet towel?

Whenever I get out of the shower and I’m done with my towel my dog sniffs it then rolls around on it. He rubs his head into it and just rolls back and forth. I also went to hot yoga and sweat all over my towel, he went into the dirty laundry bin and pulled out my towel and did the same thing! Why is he rubbing all over my towels??

Is lunch directly after yoga is harmful?

Hi
Few days before I faced with the problem of Prostatitis. So doctor suggested me to have a hot bath and excercise regularly.I am following the doctors suggestion and I do 1 hour yoga daily and running in the evening after coming from the office.
I have a doubt in my mind that, I do yoga in the afternoon in my lunch break and suddenly after finishhing yoga I go for lunch. Is there any problem if I go directly to the lunch after yoga?

Today I did a physical fitness analysis in that I found that I have protein and mineral deficiancy so how can I increase the protein and mineral level in my body? Please suggest about the protein and mineral rich diets.

Thanks in advance.

I NEVER dress up!! I ALWAYS wear workout clothes! How can i make myself dress better?

I HATE dressing up because i love being comfortable and just wearing sweatpants or those soffee shorts and a sports T or something. I have no motivation to dress up unless i go clubbing or something-is this normal?
PS im a college student
skinny jeans are a no-no! how are those comfortable? stilleto heels are more comfortable than skinny jeans!

Air Force Basic Training 3 pairs of Civilian Clothes, Jeans or workout running pants?

For Air Force Basic Training they said to bring 3 pairs of Civilian Clothes. Should I bring Jeans or workout pants to run in?

How many sets of Workout Clothes do you use in a Week?

where can i find arnold schwarzenneger workout clothes?

i really want one of the muscle shirts he wears, i think it says genny’s, jenny’s, or denny’s? and i also want his gold’s cut off t’shirt

Stores i can buy workout clothes but not expensive?

Because I need to buy lots.
Stores like roots except less expensive.
all your answers dont help me.

I LIVE IN CANADA!!!

*FEMALES ONLY-BRA ISSUE* Can you wear a bra to bed?

If you wore a bra to bed, would it affect your breast’s growing habits if you still developing? I’m 12 and I wear a sports bra. I have since I was 10. I was too scared to ask my mom for a new bra when the ones I had were getting tight, so I just stretched them and adjusted the straps so it fits. Eventually, I got a new one, but I heard it will help your development if you wear a sports bra or ANy bra while you sleep. Is it true?

Does wearing a bra in bed cause cancer?

and/or misshapen breasts?

I’m asking because I am thirteen and wear bra‘s to bed and have done for about a year. But I read it can misshape your breast and cause breastcancer so I am now going to wear sports bra‘s with no cup just like a cotton one will that be better and will that cause cancer or misshapen breasts?

Thanks.

Is it okay to sleep with a sports bra on at night?

I personally normally do, but I wear a sports bra in bed, not a wired one, that’s too uncomfortable.

is it ok to wear a sports bra at night?

i heard wearing a bra to bed can increase your chance of breast cancer? and it will make your boobs sag? is this true? :/

What do big busted gals wear to bed when you have guests over? I don’t want to wear a regular bra, but I’m too?

big to go flapping in the breeze too. I wore a light sports bra last night. And, although comfortable, it wasn’t much different than going naked as far as the sag factor is concerned.

I’m a 32DD, what other options are there? A more supportive sports bra?

Is 95 pounds underweight?

I am a 5’2 high school senior and 95 pounds (though I tend to fluctuate between 94-96). I wear 0s or maybe 00s, not really sure but I just bought a pair of XXS pants today. My friends keep telling me that this is underweight, but the thing is I have very small bones and a small frame to begin with, and a surprisingly very curvy figure. I know that this might be hard to believe given how small I am, but I tend to be long in the upper body, meaning my waist is significantally smaller than the rest of my body, creating curves despite my small bra size (I also have a bubble booty). I like the way I look, but is this too skinny? I used to be like 107 but then started ballet and doing Pilates and it just came flying off

How can I get down to a size 0 in jeans?

Hi. I am 5 ft 2.5 in. I currently wear a size 3 short in jeans. I am about 107lbs. How can I lose 2 pant sizes and make my legs longer, and thinner? excercises?

I used to be a cheerleader and my legs look really muscular. I want them to look like this:

http://www.moscanasopa.blogger.com.br/Perfect_Legs.jpg

Please!!!!!! Help! I currently eat 1 cup of cereal dry each moring with a glass of ice cold water. Two pieces of sandwhich meat with a slice of cheese in each roll, an apple, 1 starch, 5-6 sticks of celery, more water, animal crackers, and various things for dinner.

I do 10 minutes of pilates like 2 times a week. I need need need to loose weight and get down to a size zero jeans.

thanks for all responses!
this is what my legs look like:
these arent mine but they look similar

http://m181.photobucket.com/image/short%20but%20muscular%20legs/epi93/DSC00027.jpg.html?src=www

my problem is I have a really thin upper body then my lower body(legs, thighs, calves) are muscular and gross.

How to lose, like lots of stomach fat by Valentines Day?

So, at Garage today, I bought this ADORABLE top… it’s a thick sweater type long sleeved shirt, it’s light blue colored with light pink and purple flowers… so, the thing is, it’s such a nice shirt, totally my style… but ummmm… it doesn’t exactly fit. Okay, it does fit. But, I mean, I am a little large in the middle compared to everywhere else, and that’s why I like to wear stuff like a solid colored tank top with a cardigan, because it doesn’t bring much attention. But this shirt is kind of… gawdy I guess, and it does draw lots of attention, and I only bought it cause it was soooo adorable, and it was on sale for about 10 dollars and about to go out of stock. Anyways. I’ve also been trying to lose weight, and now I have a good reason. Of course, I won’t lose enough weight to look good in the shirt right away, but it would be the perfect shirt for Valentines day. So, my workout plan was to do cardio 5 hours a week, (so like, one hour a day, minus two days) and on the two days where I don’t do cardio I’d do a pilates video targeting the abs. And once I see some slight results, I’ll start some situps and side bends, cause I know you’re supposed to wait to burn the top layer of fat. And also, I’ll eat healthier, not eat as much snacks… Does this sound all well? I’d really like to shape up by Valentines day… xx

DO YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF to BE RANDOM?

Come on give me the top 3 most random things about you

here is mine:

1. Whenever I read the word DIARRHEA, even if I’m reading to myself, I have to say it out loud. (have been doing this for 2 years and it was quite humourous to some in school, I didnt think so)

2. When I was 10 years old I used to have a beanie with Cat ears on it and I wore it EVERYWHERE.

3. I do pilates every morning to keep me limber when I swim….

oh and heres an extra one

4. When I was about 12 and went to church on Sundays me and my friend Ammerson would search the whole Bible to find curse words….

Help..please ?

I am a16 year old girl, I weigh 160 lbs, 5’5” hourglass figure, 29 in waist. I want to get into shape and toned in the next 4 weeks. I am willing to do anything. I want to know if I can get her body in 4 weeks by eating only vegetables, staying under 300 calories a day, drinking 8 cups of water and exercing 3 hours a day on the stationary bike and an hour doing Denise Austin pilates?
The girl in the far right wearing the dark green top.

http://i35.tinypic.com/impi77.jpg

http://i38.tinypic.com/111i9m1.jpg

How long after Forever 21 orientation does one have to wait for the work schedule?

I recently had an orientation with Forever 21 last monday. They said it will take about 3 or 5 days or at most a week to do the background check and then schedule. It been more than a week. I called one and they said they haven’t get the schedule yet. So should I call again? Is this the norm?

How much does Forever 21 pay their assistant managers?

Do you know how much Forever 21 pays their assistant managers? Have you ever worked for Forever 21 before?

What’s the difference between Forever 21 and XXI Forever?

They’re opening an XXI Forever at my local mall but they already have a Forever 21 there. What’s the difference? This is a serious question so please no like immature answers like they’re both crappy stores or something I really want to know thanks!

What is a store related to Forever 21? And What are some tips for shopping at Forever21?

When I can find a top there it’s super cute, but it’s so hard to shop there because it’s not very organized.
So… What are some tips for shopping at Forever 21 and What are some stores related to Forever 21?

Thank you so much!

How long would it take Forever 21 to ship my shoulder bag?

How long would it take Forever 21 to ship my shoulder bag?

I paid for standard shipping, and it said it would come in 5 – 10 days.

Does anyone have an exact number on how many days it would take?
I did try to track my order, but it couldn’t find it.
I tried almost all of the shipping services.

Does joining the gym really pay off?

The closest gym around is 15-20 minutes from my house. I have a home gym but I don’t have motivation right now to workout on my own. I figured going to a gym for a couple of months would get me back in the swing of things, but they are about 50 bucks a month and require a commitment and also charge a one time fee to set you up. Should I just go ahead and join a gym or should I just get my butt in gear at home? I have a very hectic work schedule (I am a police officer on rotating shifts). Also, does anyone have any suggestions on a workout plan? I already eat healthy, I just want to tone up. Also, I am a female.

Exercises to blast the belly fat?

I exercise and drink plently of water. I do cardio workout once a month (in the form of step ups). However, because I used to be very overweight, I still have a lot of belly fat.

I need exercises that will really launch the belly into gear and make it work like a machine in order to lose it.

So is there any such exercises like that? =)

What is a popular magazine for teen guys?

you know workout tips, sports, girl advice, ect. does such a magazine geared for teenage guys exist?

Will Nintendo be releasing more games for the Wii Fit? I’d like to see Yoga and Step have it’s own CD.?

I love my Wii Fit. However, I’d like to see more Wii Fit games come out specifically geared towards one workout. Such as a Yoga disc, an Aerobic or “step aerobic” disc, etc. Anyone know if these are in the works?

Why is riding a bike so hard?

I bought a bike as a new way to get a fun outdoor workout as I’m tired of the treadmill and elliptical. I find it very hard to ride, like I’m out of shape and can only last about 10 minutes before I feel like my lungs are about to explode. Why could this be? I have tried changing the gears, but no luck.
I’ve just started, only tried 2 times.
I’m not over weight, thanks